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The majority of the adult population has one or both forms. Statistically, someone who has had unprotected sex with 3 people almost certainly has HSV1 and someone who has had unprotected sex with more than 5 people has both HSV1 and 2. Condoms leave a lot of underexposed area, too, so you can be infected without ever having unprotected sex. 85% of those infected don't know.